| Location | Manchester |
| Age | 0 |
| Date of Birth | 12/1996 |
| Date of Death | 12/1996 |
| Visitors | 1,059 since 11/07/2007 |
| Creator |
benjamin wright. 18 december 1996. 2 weeks old. manchester. brothers michael , andrew , rodney jnr ,
sisters billie-jean ,chantelle , rebecca , danielle. ben was still born. i was 38 wks pregnant when
i woke on 4 december thinking my waters had gone and found i had a heavy bleed i was rushed to
hospital where they examined me and found no heart beat on my son and again was bleeding heavy next
i knew i was being rushed to threatre with no explain what was going on all i remember was been
given an injection to make me sleep as they was doing a c selection on me. next thing i remember was
waking asking where my son was and no one told me nothing until late at night saying he had to go to
hope hospital and there was a bed there for me i had nt seen my son just a picture the hospital had
taken. we went to hope i was there before ben and still had to wait. i finally saw my son that night
he was covered in tubes and wires every where i still did nt know what was goin on. on saturday 5
december i was told by a doctor my son was serious ill and fast asleep and wont wake wont make it
through the weekend i should have him christine so i had to gather family and friends as my son was
bein christine it went well i have a video off him which i still cry too now. ben made it through
the weekend and was seem to be getting better he was transfer back to crumpsall hospital he was
doing so well the doctors was talking about ben coming home. you was doing so well you where still
fast asleep and i prayed you would wake but you never did only on the 17 december before i left to
go home you open your eyes i was so happy i throught this was it you where strong and i would take
you home not releasing you was saying goodbye.on 18 december i got a phone call asking us to come
over thinkin you have woken up but no we where going to be told to say our goodbyes i just wanted to
be with you but you was in a private room with a nurse. then i took over holding you and crying
saying please ben wake up but at 10am we got told you had gone we just cryed. the hospital took
prints of your hands and feet and a lock of your hair. there is no day gone by that i wish i could
see you again you are always in my heart i miss you sooo much danielle and rodney never got to see
you but we talk about you i know you are watching over your brothers and sisters and keep them safe
i love you ben and pray every night that the heaven doors will open so i can see you again and hold
once again kept safe son and be happy me and your dad may no long be together but i ll always be
here and love you see you soon son i love you loads xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
hi little angel i hope you ok i miss you so much can you please ask him above if he can send me a stairway so i can see you for awhile i give you a big hug i love you son xxx
Each night we shed a silent tear,
as we speak to you in prayer.
To let you know we love you,
and just how much we care.
Take our million teardrops,
wrap them up in love,
Then ask the wind to carry them,
to you in heaven above. Xx
today i had to go to your uncle funeral it was so sad as all i throught about was you but now i dont have to worry as i now know your uncle is with you to keep you safe and warm i love you both so much tell your uncle we miss him so much xxxx and most of all i love you too son xxxx
merry christmas
to my darling son ben its christmas day and u are not here am missing u and wish u was here to open ur presents i hope u are having fun where u are and very happy am missing u happy christmas son i love u so much and miss u every day u are in my heart on this special day all my love mum xxxx
happy birthday
happy birthday i love you mummy
im watch down on you ever day and i love you mummy have a nice day love ya mummy
from ben x.x.x..x..x..x..
A poem for you
Though your smile has gone forever
And your hand we cannot touch
We still have so many memories
Of the one we love so much
Your memory is our keepsake
With which we’ll never part
God has you in his keeping
We have you in our hearts.
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You're A Special Little Spirit
'You're a Special Little Spirit,' the all great Master said,
As he gently caressed the curly blond hair of the Little Spirit's Head.
'you need to go to Earth to spend some time, you know,
A place I send most Spirits to be tested, to learn, to grow.
The Little Spirit, in sadness, slowly bowed her head,
And from her eye a tear did steal and down her cheek it shed.
'Don't you fret now little one, I won't let you stay too long,
I'll bring you back to help me here, You'll hardly know you've been gone.
You're my choicest Little Spirit, you're the apple of my eye.'
And he wiped the tear and gently kissed His Little Spirit good-bye.
'I'm back,' the Little Spirit whispered, as she climbed onto her Master's knee,
And the Master said, 'I told you, you would not be long away from me.'
And then, the Lord, He noticed still another tear welled in her eye.
'Why are you so sad, Little Spirit, whatever should make you cry?'
'I'm glad I'm back,' the Spirit said, 'but Master you must surely know,
When your angel came to get me, I didn't want to go.
I know you said you needed me and that I'd be gone the shortest while,
But Lord, couldn't I have had a little longer earthly trial?'
The Master let the Little Spirit slip down from His knee,
He firmly took the little hand and said,'Come walk with me.'
The Little Spirit and her Lord walked slowly hand in hand,
As the Master explained Her special part in the great and marvelous plan.
'Now Lord, I don't mean to argue, I understand you need me home.
But I left in such a hurry, I left everyone hurting and so alone.
I didn't let my earthly parents know how much I loved them so.
I was much too small to tell them, Lord, how will they ever know?
They feel they've been cheated, and in a way so do I.
Not getting to share any more than we did, how can I ever tell them why?'
'Little Spirit, I know your heart is heavy with the message you need to share.
But you need not worry anymore, I'll watch over your loved ones there.
I'll send them loving comfort as a strong and helping hand.
I'll content and give peace to their aching hearts, so they will understand.
The Little Spirit looked up at her Master and said 'Thank you for explaining it to me.
And could you please tell them I'm safe and happy and that someday they'll be here with me.'
'Yes,' said the Lord with a smile and a nod, 'I'll tell them all that I can.'
Then the others came to see the Little Spirit, as the Lord let go of her hand.
He said, 'I'll tell them you're pure, as pure as Heaven's Gold,
That I needed the warmth of your perfect soul to keep Heaven from getting cold.'
Author Unknown
someone who understands
Our thoughts are with you all, the loss of a child leaves an indiscribable void in our lives. Stay strong and take comfort in the fact there are people who do understand and offer you comfort in your darkest times.
Another little angel in gods care.
Benjamin,your another little baby born to be an angel, ive got 4 children aged,5,9,17, x18.god only knows what your parents are going through.please keep them safe,and blow loads of kisses for them.Hope you ve met my mum,on the other side,shes got plenty of hugs 4 you.sleep tight little one.xxxxxxxx
keep a watch over your family ben, you were too good for this world, your life was too precious and jesus needed you. i know that your mammy will never stop missing you but she knows you watch over all, sleep tight little man, your at peace, love always, nikki xxxxx
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